A robust number of humans equate forgiving with forgetting. Not the same thing, bruv. The difference is as thus: To forgive is to acknowledge that a crime has been committed against you, but you choose not to (a) allow rancour fill your soul, and (b) understanding the human element behind their actions. If you forgive, decide to continue relations and there is no attitude adjustment, you still maintain the stance of forgiveness while moving on in peace beCause they, are not remotely worth it. Having communications is optional, depending on if there is an attitude adjustment. If there is non, your forgiveness remains and you move on immediately. Why? Look at them, every last one of them. Observe objectively, withOut sentiment. What do you see? Sadness. Unhappy. Discontentment. Ugliness. Bitterness. Dislocation. Loss of self. Life has not been good to any of them, and you can see that karma, is a real thing. The most important question to ask yourSelf - if I was...