Farafina called me and told they wanted a write-up from me for a special they are doing on their blog. The theme was about my time in the university.   I had a day to submit it.   Wow, talk about a couple of bricks landing smack on the top of my head.   I started writing a letter to decline their offer....  After typing the letter on my hand-held, I was about to press the "send" button, when I hesitated and remembered the words of the best man I know....   My dearest be-loved patient, long-suffering, drama absorbing, tolerant, love-of-my-head-and-heart and one of the MOST brilliant and philosophical men I know: Chidi. The stylish MAN who pushes me mentally and constantly challenges my C.Q. (Cerebral Quotient).   His words were: "Always take two seconds to think be-fore taking any action, especially YOU, Omo".   Ah, but, this MAN knew me well.   I was trying to reach him to ask for his advice on what to do in regards to the offer, but, he was buried in some meeting.....